I can really relate to this. It’s not always easy to align what we believe with what we do. We are human, we slip, we make mistakes. It happens ALL the time and that’s okay. We pick ourselves up, we learn and we do better tomorrow.
I admit, I am guilty of being irrationally hard on myself for simple little mistakes and sometimes for the quirks that make me, me.
I look at all of these posts on social media and see beautiful people, fit people, rich people, happy people and sometimes, I compare myself.
“Why don’t I look like her?”
“I wish I were as successful as she is.”
“I wish I could do that!”
I would never tell a friend to compare them self to anyone else. So why is it okay when I do it myself? I am reminded not to compare my ‘behind the scenes’ to their ‘highlight reel.’
I am working towards becoming the person that I want to be and that takes time and patience (not yet a virtue of mine). I see a therapist because mental health is just as important as physical health. I honestly believe that everyone could benefit from some time in therapy.
Why are we so afraid of that word? Let’s eradicate the stigma because in this world of social media and false representation, too many of us fall into this trap of comparing. We are creating a culture of constant insecurity and implied inadequacy.
You are wonderful. My pictures, his pictures, her pictures…they don’t matter. You don’t know what led to those photos.
Be careful of what it is that you envy. Take the time to discover who you are and grow into the best version of yourself.
I will be doing the same.
Damn you, Dine-In theater and your villainous combination of tequila and movies! You have led me to yet another drunken blog post! But that’s ok, I will forgive due to your wonderful combination of tequila and movies!
This post may not be that long because I may very well pass out while writing it. No, I’m not that drunk…I just get very sleepy after a few margaritas… or one. (I have painfully pitiful tolerance). Anyway, I wanted to sit (lay) down and write a quick blog about my thoughts on “50/50,” starring Joseph Gordon-Levitt and Seth Rogen.
My thoughts: Pleasantly surprised.
Ok, end of blog now. Night night!!
Just kidding. I would highly recommend this movie to anyone interested in seeing a true reflection of life. Many people can’t sit in a theater and watch a movie that’s “just too real”, myself being one of them but this movie does a brilliant job of keeping you alert and laughing even when dealing with the all-too-real reality of Cancer. Cancer is difficult for those struggling with the disease and for family and friends who travel that path with them but not every moment is drenched in sadness. “50/50” allows its audience a small glimpse into the life of one man afflicted with this awful disease and just how he was able to cope through humor.
I won’t pretend to know what it is like to live this struggle and those who have lived it may disagree with me. As a matter of fact, I would be interested to know their thoughts. Yet as an outsider, I truly enjoyed every moment of this film. I laughed; I cried and I didn’t come out of the theater saying “Why did I spend money on this piece of shit?” That last part is big, man. Freakin’ huge. Do you know how many times I feel like I have been personally robbed after going to the movies? The fact that I didn’t walk out of the theater feeling like the victim of a brutal mugging this time only helps prove my point.
Side-yet very important-note: Joseph Gordon-Levitt is a fantastic actor and always does a good job of portraying troubled characters. Huge crush. Huge. Love him. (Oops… in vino veritas?)
Adding one more star to its rating, (assuming I was using some kind of a rating system) is the fact that this movie ties into my latest fixation quite well. As my last post would suggest, Steve Jobs and the idea of using death as a form of motivation have become something of an obsession. Watching this man come to terms with his own mortality has pushed me even further in the direction of following my dreams. A movie that doubles as inspiration? Score! I don’t mean to imply that the movie will have this same effect on all who watch it but I wouldn’t rule it out either. I stand by my recommendation and I hope that this movie can do for you what it has done for me, or at the very least, I hope you don’t feel that you wasted $15 for another bomb.
Best wishes! And again, apologies for any incoherency due to inebriation. I’m hittin’ the sack. Good night!